San Francisco’s esteemed etiquette authority, Lisa Mirza Grotts, is charting new territory with the release of her latest book, A Traveler’s Passport to Etiquette in a Post-Pandemic World. With a distinguished career that includes serving as the Director of Protocol for former San Francisco Mayor Willie L. Brown, Grotts has long been at the forefront of discussions surrounding civility and manners.
Now, she turns her focus to guiding travelers through the evolving landscape of post-pandemic etiquette, offering insights on how to navigate the complexities of modern travel with grace.
In March, Grotts embarked on a transatlantic adventure aboard the legendary Queen Mary 2, sailing from New York to Southampton, England. This voyage was not merely a journey across the Atlantic; it was an opportunity to engage with fellow travelers on the nuances of etiquette in today’s world.
Onboard, she hosted an exclusive book signing, where her warmth and expertise shone through, captivating an audience eager to embrace the art of refined travel. Life aboard the Queen Mary 2 is steeped in Old World charm and sophisticated traditions. From black tie dinners to afternoon tea and ballroom dancing, the ship embodies a culture of elegance.
Grotts’ insights on shipboard etiquette are invaluable, ensuring that her fellow travelers are poised and prepared to engage in the ship’s time-honored customs. “Observe before you act,” she advises, encouraging passengers to familiarize themselves with the ship’s traditions before immersing themselves in the experience. This thoughtful approach not only enhances one’s enjoyment but also fosters a deeper appreciation for the journey itself.
Dressing appropriately for formal nights is another cornerstone of Grotts’s guidance. “A well-prepared wardrobe elevates any experience,” she notes. The Queen Mary 2 offers an array of formal events, and Grotts emphasizes the importance of dressing the part to fully embrace the elegance of the occasion.
By doing so, travelers not only honor the traditions of the ship but also contribute to the overall atmosphere of sophistication that defines ocean liner travel.
In her book, Grotts expands upon the significance of kindness in travel, asserting that “graciousness is the universal travel currency.” This ethos resonates deeply in a post-pandemic world where the importance of civility and respect has taken on new meaning.
Through her writing and interactions, Grotts champions a travel experience rooted in compassion and consideration for others, reminding us that the ultimate travel essential lies not in our luggage but in how we carry ourselves.
As the summer travel season approaches, Grotts offers her trademark tips, ensuring that travelers are not only well-prepared but also embody the essence of elegance wherever they go.
Among her essential advice is the use of tracking devices, such as AirTags, to keep tabs on luggage—a practical yet sophisticated solution in today’s bustling airports.
Additionally, she emphasizes the importance of allergy considerations by urging travelers to notify airlines in advance, fostering an environment of care and awareness.
Grotts also underscores the necessity of allowing ample time for crowds, encouraging travelers to arrive early to ease the check-in process. “Expect long lines and delays,” she advises, reminding us that patience is a virtue in the world of travel. Furthermore, her guidance to pack lightly—favoring versatile outfits and leaving room for mementos—reflects her understanding of the modern traveler’s needs.
In a world where distractions abound, Grotts advises against drawing attention to oneself by leaving valuable possessions at home. This simple yet profound piece of advice encapsulates her ethos: elegance is often found in subtlety.
As Lisa Grotts continues to champion grace and civility in travel, her newly published book serves as both a guide and a source of inspiration for travelers navigating the complexities of a post-pandemic world.
With her insights, she reminds us that every journey is an opportunity to embody the principles of etiquette and elegance, enriching our experiences and the lives of those we encounter along the way.
Through her journey aboard the Queen Mary 2 and the release of her latest work, Grotts invites us all to embark on a voyage of discovery—one gracious gesture at a time.
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